This has been “a week”. You know, one of those weeks with enough stress and anxiety for several lifetimes. I’m a seasoned caretaker and medical support person, but this week added multiple new first experiences that I hope I never have to repeat. And yes covid-19 added extra layers of complication and stress.
I courageously did what I had to do. I divided my time between home and hospital. I juggled time with my patient wife, our dogs, family updates, and me. Yes ME. Without good self care I wasn’t going to make it through. I could feel the cortisol coursing through my veins. I had a lump in my throat that wouldn’t go away.
I needed to ground myself. I needed to reconnect with the larger natural world. I needed to let myself rest in the palms of the universe.
I walked to the Kettle Pond Conservancy at the end of my street. I took my camera along. I walked slowly soaking in the healing energy that surrounded me. With each breath, I breathed a little deeper. With each step, I noticed a color, a texture, a movement. I sank slowly into a deeper and deeper healing place, a place so focused and small and teeming with minute details, yet also huge with everything across the entire galaxy interconnected. My feet grew roots down to the center of the earth and my head opened wide to the star dust above.
I needed many reminders:
The more I walked and observed, the more I remembered that the trials and tribulations happening in the hospital room did not negate nature’s wondrous beauty. All these things kept happening whether I was here or at the hospital. I could draw on the healing powers of these images to support me through the week’s challenges.
Cortisol drained from my body and washed away the lump in my throat. I stood taller. A soft smile appeared on my lips. The pond worked its magic again. Trauma transformed into healing.
Thank you Kettle. All will be well and I will be able to face another day.
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July 6, 2020 at 1:10 am
Dear Heather, A beautiful expression of love & pain. I am so sorry for this horrible illness & stress. Sending you heartfelt love & understanding. Much love, Bedouin
July 6, 2020 at 9:29 pm
Thank you for your thoughtful words and support.
July 7, 2020 at 12:21 pm
This is beautiful. I love the way your collages turned out. A reminder that the natural world is always there to hold us. We just have to step out and open our hearts, our ears, our eyes.
July 7, 2020 at 1:58 pm
Thanks. May you be open and held.